road not taken

ever feel like in this life that you don't have any choice but to blame others?yes, i know i have.it might sound ridiculous but it is true.never deny it; as i have met a lot of person that "fond" of blaming others but themselves. did we call it selfish? yes it is one simple act of selfishness that would never leave our human nature. and i'm not blaming or "pointing" to anyone. i am too, the same.who is noble enough to realize and admit their wrong doings?no one.if such people exist, i don't think we ever need rules and regulations or even court to be the judged of our own choices. do you think?however, to make it perfect out of one person seem like an utopia; far from our reach. why i am relating choices and blaming others in the same page? because i realised nowadays, when everything's going wrong, people tend to escape and start to put the burden on others. was it not enough that you make a different choice that you should put it for others to bear?why can't you take a moment to think rationally about the solution before deciding to point it to others.is it that much fun to see others suffer because of your causes?too many questions; but for the past few years, i have learned to blame myself first before others.yet, i still make mistakes about it but i never regret.maybe, it's truely my mistakes. and i am not telling you that i am not selfish as until today, i care too much about my happiness before others. it can't be separated but before i choose what is best for me, i put the needs of others that close to me first. i choose to care for others but will other choose to do so for me or perhaps strangers and friends that need their helps sometimes or even for themselves? choices are not only matter that come in our life, part of it we create it for ourselves. choosing to be good or bad does not only come from people before us or our environment; but it's a choice of the mind and soul.of our own mentality and judgement where biases, evaluation and decision are make to satisfy the thought that we hold and believe.mind visualize and help to execute everything beyond our understanding.if you choose not to do a thing, you will never make yourself to start doing it, and otherwise.as for me, we never will be the ideal person that we want to portray to others if we could not stop blaming others and acting selfish. a word from a true person could always be distiguish from another. so, this also a choice right?start listen to others and don't only think that the world is miserable place as you are still living in it....mungkin:D

picture: stairs to nowhere by MichelRajkovic